How much is too much?

Hello people, its been quite some time that I posted something on my blog. So, here I am comfortably sitting inside my blanket, and laptop and thinking about what exactly to write down?
So, I am not really a person who goes out and mingle up with people in the very first go I meet them, but if someone is nice to me, I do not hesitate to be nice to the person and helpful either.

So, I happened to meet this guy in class who asked me for my notes as he had missed those particular classes. I asked him the reason for doing so, to which he replied " Kahin bhi jaane ke liye waqt chahiye hota hai, aur jab voh hi kam padne lage toh insaan kya kare? " ( To reach any place you need time, and if the time starts running out, what will the person do then? )

I didn't really realize what he meant initially, and thought of him as someone who likes responding to people with his own delusional answers.But something about him was intriguing. I went on to question him further as of what his reply meant.
He told me that his father has Hemiparesis (Half Paralysis) and mother is fighting with Cancer. So, he has to take them for routine check ups and works as a typist and short hand assistant in the High Court, as he is the only earning source.
It wasn't something I have never been exposed to. We all know that people around us are battling with so many things, some of which we cant even imagine ourselves in.
In the meanwhile, the teacher came and started with the routine class.
I didn't really think much about it, after the class. While coming back, I went to a bakery shop to buy some stuff where I saw another girl asking her mom to get her a pastry. The mother was reluctant not to get her one, because of her Sugar problem. It saddened me, the girl was barely 7-8 years old.

Coming back home, I realized we have so much and yet curse friends, stalkers, relatives, circumstances, situations, destiny, luck and what not just to gain 2 minutes of happiness which we get after consoling and satisfying ourselves from the shallow lies.
For some, a little is more than enough, and for others even too much is less.
How do we decide for ourselves, how much is too much or enough for us?
Maybe we all know that, or maybe we will never know.

That one thing.

Its been a long time, when i wrote something last, no specific reasons but still a few. I don't want to get in the intricacies but to keep it simple I lost that temperament to write.
But now I am back, and ready to be in touch with you guys. Another thing I have noticed is that the last post I wrote on was on 2nd Jan 2014. Almost a year, and now I am back. Yes, i do realize its a long time.
So, like ever, I too had a new year resolution last year. And sadly, it came out to be of no use. The resolution was to focus and concentrate on one thing. I gave myself a lot of time to do the same. But the irony is, the whole time i couldn't find that one thing. Apparently i tried my hand in a lot of things but still that one thing didn't click.
Now, you might be thinking of a very good question as of why suddenly looking out for that one thing? Umm.. You see, its a genuine question and simple as well. Any motivational, biography, autobiography you read you will read one line for sure, fashioned in one way or the other. According to the books, all these people had a calling - that ONE THING that made them forget everything else, it was their everything - Love, passion, madness.
But ultimately after giving myself ample time, I realized maybe i am abnormal or something, but i seriously couldnt find that One thing as such.
There could be reasons to it - Maybe I love so many things, that I cant choose out of the lot. Or, the fact that I am a good multi-tasker and since I can manage things well, I don't find the need to pick and choose. And above all, the fact that I am a Saggitarian - We tend to get bored with things right?
Anyways, whatever the reason is, I am glad that I am happy in this space. A place where you don't have to pressurize yourself for things that you tend to see and assume you should need to adopt since everyone else does, even when you have no need to make changes in that order.
So, Finally I have come to the conclusion that do as many things as you love as long as you are doing it good. And for me, I have realized I love way too many things to let even one of them off my list - Writing, Fashion, Designing, Reading people, Helping people, Fashion Photography.
So, now how I put it is Find the things you love, and let them consume you. And when you get a bit bored, you know how to shift and indulge in your other love for sometime.
And probably the one thing of which you are never bored of is You -Yourself!
From now on, I will also post the picture of the day with my blogpost for fun.

From where I am writing, at the moment. Peace and Serenity.