I've often asked myself what people who are on their death beds wish they had spent more time doing . I think the answer running through their heads at that time might be - " Spending more time with people i love . Life, after all , is all about relationships " .
Wondering why i am sharing my views about relationships all of a sudden . Someone has asked to . I don't really know that person , but since i write for my audiences and this was a polite request , So here i am .
"On the death bed no one has ever wished that they had spent more time in the office" .
Exactly !
Start up with some basic things . To begin with ; Analyse how is your relationship with the people you love . Your friends , siblings , parents / guardians , girlfriend , boyfriend etc .
Maybe its going great . Maybe not . Either way , you can improve it .
You don't have to be perfect - none of us really is . You just need to make progress ; progress within yourself . Because the most important ingredient in any relationship is what You are .
You can do lot of things , but here are 6 that work every time :-
1. Promises that are kept .
2. Small acts of Kindness .
3. Loyalty .
4. Listening , then Talking .
5. Saying Sorry .
6. Setting realistic expectations .
In order to have a failed relationship , here are the things that work too . So , please avoid :-
1. Breaking a Promise .
2. Not Sharing.
3. Back Biting.
4. Not listening at all !!
5. Being full of yourself .
6. Setting unrealistic expectations .
Think like a Mirror . It doesn't judge . It just reflects . Mirroring isn't Mimicking .
Mimicking is Repeating words .
Using same words.
Cold and indifferent .
Mirroring is Repeating the meaning.
Using your own words.
Warm and Caring .
Try making the 6 Golden rules a habit . It will surely improve your relationship with others . The person may initially think you're playing him or her ( if you have been very bad with the fellow ) - but will ultimately also appreciate your concern ;)
Wondering why i am sharing my views about relationships all of a sudden . Someone has asked to . I don't really know that person , but since i write for my audiences and this was a polite request , So here i am .
"On the death bed no one has ever wished that they had spent more time in the office" .
Exactly !
Start up with some basic things . To begin with ; Analyse how is your relationship with the people you love . Your friends , siblings , parents / guardians , girlfriend , boyfriend etc .
Maybe its going great . Maybe not . Either way , you can improve it .
You don't have to be perfect - none of us really is . You just need to make progress ; progress within yourself . Because the most important ingredient in any relationship is what You are .
You can do lot of things , but here are 6 that work every time :-
1. Promises that are kept .
2. Small acts of Kindness .
3. Loyalty .
4. Listening , then Talking .
5. Saying Sorry .
6. Setting realistic expectations .
In order to have a failed relationship , here are the things that work too . So , please avoid :-
1. Breaking a Promise .
2. Not Sharing.
3. Back Biting.
4. Not listening at all !!
5. Being full of yourself .
6. Setting unrealistic expectations .
Think like a Mirror . It doesn't judge . It just reflects . Mirroring isn't Mimicking .
Mimicking is Repeating words .
Using same words.
Cold and indifferent .
Mirroring is Repeating the meaning.
Using your own words.
Warm and Caring .
Try making the 6 Golden rules a habit . It will surely improve your relationship with others . The person may initially think you're playing him or her ( if you have been very bad with the fellow ) - but will ultimately also appreciate your concern ;)
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