Never have i given much thought about Love , the eternal unconditional feeling or so . But then , since i have written my heart out on my personalized views on Breakups , i have been asked by many of my friends and have received mails to share my feelings and thoughts on Love as well .
A deep silence followed by goosebumps is the first things that follows . I believe everyone deep inside is afraid to think about Love . Everyone is scared of reminding those memories which they have ever experienced , and now which have been buried deep inside .
Ask someone who has ever loved somebody . No , am not talking about crush , strong friendship , attraction . I am talking purely talking about Love .
People do ask about the difference between them as many believe everything at first starts from crush or attraction only . Well , it may start from friendship also . There are a lot of iff 's and buts , but you can deny that there is nothing in world comparable to the feeling called Love .
There is a Hot debate among youngsters of why to fall in Love when there is so much of pain and complications in it . " Everyone wants to go to the heaven but nobody wants to die " , is my reply which puts a smile on their face .Strange ! People around us want to experience the little joys , moments , care , want to take a backseat when a little problem or complication follows .
I am no love expert of what you must be thinking by now . But yes , i know am not among the other 90& population today who just pretends to be in love or deliberately make themselves believe that yes they are .
There are already so many things , situations and people in front of whom we fake for our own reasons . Please let Love not be another one .
So , i have this what i call Love Test . Take it and am sure you will love it as well . It will help you to know , at least to an extent if you are in Love or not . Read on .
1. BABY TEST
It can be performed by looking at someone else's baby . If you smile at it , you're in Love . If you growl until it cries , then you're not and probably would never be with the person you are imagining at this very moment.
2. TOILET ROLL TEST
Make a note of your toilet roll consumption and if it increases suddenly during the seven day period (because of new felt anxiety) , then you're in Love .
3. SIZE OF YOUR TIP TEST
When you are with your lady or even otherwise , and if you tip the waiter more generously , you're in Love .
4. SMART ONE
And if while reading this , you were cross checking whether you feel or do this way with reference to a particular person , then you're in love my friend .
Lastly , the most frequently asked question - How to know if you're in love with your best friend ?
Well , it is very simple . Obviously , the time you spend with your best friend is worth enjoying and you have all the fun things together . But when , you lay your head on the pillow at night , do you still see his / her face? Do you count the steps when he / she walks away ? Your heart will tell you . Ask yourself , before you end up saying years from now , it must have been love !
A deep silence followed by goosebumps is the first things that follows . I believe everyone deep inside is afraid to think about Love . Everyone is scared of reminding those memories which they have ever experienced , and now which have been buried deep inside .
Ask someone who has ever loved somebody . No , am not talking about crush , strong friendship , attraction . I am talking purely talking about Love .
People do ask about the difference between them as many believe everything at first starts from crush or attraction only . Well , it may start from friendship also . There are a lot of iff 's and buts , but you can deny that there is nothing in world comparable to the feeling called Love .
There is a Hot debate among youngsters of why to fall in Love when there is so much of pain and complications in it . " Everyone wants to go to the heaven but nobody wants to die " , is my reply which puts a smile on their face .Strange ! People around us want to experience the little joys , moments , care , want to take a backseat when a little problem or complication follows .
I am no love expert of what you must be thinking by now . But yes , i know am not among the other 90& population today who just pretends to be in love or deliberately make themselves believe that yes they are .
There are already so many things , situations and people in front of whom we fake for our own reasons . Please let Love not be another one .
So , i have this what i call Love Test . Take it and am sure you will love it as well . It will help you to know , at least to an extent if you are in Love or not . Read on .
1. BABY TEST
It can be performed by looking at someone else's baby . If you smile at it , you're in Love . If you growl until it cries , then you're not and probably would never be with the person you are imagining at this very moment.
2. TOILET ROLL TEST
Make a note of your toilet roll consumption and if it increases suddenly during the seven day period (because of new felt anxiety) , then you're in Love .
3. SIZE OF YOUR TIP TEST
When you are with your lady or even otherwise , and if you tip the waiter more generously , you're in Love .
4. SMART ONE
And if while reading this , you were cross checking whether you feel or do this way with reference to a particular person , then you're in love my friend .
Lastly , the most frequently asked question - How to know if you're in love with your best friend ?
Well , it is very simple . Obviously , the time you spend with your best friend is worth enjoying and you have all the fun things together . But when , you lay your head on the pillow at night , do you still see his / her face? Do you count the steps when he / she walks away ? Your heart will tell you . Ask yourself , before you end up saying years from now , it must have been love !
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